"You dont love me any more"

What’s love between a man and a woman? Will some one tell me for god sake?

“I love you”, the three beautiful words (I had to be on coke the whole night to convince myself that those words are the world’s most beautiful words when together).

Is love between a Man and his pet is as between him and his woman? Or there are severity definitions and formulas around it.

Severity 1- Love between a man and a woman
Severity 1 SLA: When in trouble TAT 15 minutes and Resolution time 2 hours or ASAP which ever is earlier.

Severity 2- Love between a man and his son/daughter
Severity 2 SLA: When in trouble TAT 2 hrs and Resolution time 8 hours

Either the aforesaid is correct or “Love” is a binary term 0 or 1. If love is a binary term then, why do we hear questions like:

How much do you love me? Who do you love the most?

And statements like:

You’ve changed; you don’t love me the way you used to, before marriage.

If love is a binary term, then it is beyond human control. A man can fall in love with anyone and even with multiple women and vice versa. If this is correct then why is someone called a “cheat” when found with someone else in bed?

Can anyone calculate or measure love? Once this becomes possible, we will have Love measurement units or who knows, may be a luvometer to measure. Life will become easier for everyone. Just measure how much your husband/wife/girl friend/boy friend loves you and kick him/her out if the score is less.

We will read such NEWS in the newspaper:

The Times of Bindia - Monday, October 25, 2010 - Front Page

WIFE DEAD AND HUSBAND TRIES SUICIDE.

Husband shot and killed his young wife, at the latter's house in this morning and then turned the revolver to his own head attempt to suicide. The couple had a great deal of domestic trouble after wife accidently discovered that her husband Luvometer score is lower than her neighbor’s.

Everything mentioned above sounds funny but leads to confusion and more confusion. Why is this confusion around such a feeling? Why is defining Love is more complicated than any other emotion. Who knows the exact reason and I dont care either.

I guess the confusion is because it means different in different contexts. In general context, Love is the emotion of strong affection, care and attachment. In religious context, love is basis for all being, which is “GOD”. The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, ranging from common pleasure to deep interpersonal attraction to passionate sexual desire. This variety of meanings with the complexity of human behavior makes love unusually difficult to define. Also, love is being politicized and manipulated so much that I don’t understand what the truth is. Do you?